Many people believe that introverts are shy, rude, they hate parties and don’t like people. However, it’s absolutely not true. Introverts just need some alone time to recharge, while extroverts enjoy being around others and they hate being alone. Introverts like to do self-reflection, analyze different ideas and they prefer solitary activities over social ones, while extroverts prefer social activities and they can express themselves more freely verbally. Check out the list of several popular myths about introverts that will help you understand them better.
1. Introverts are shy
Introversion isn’t the same as being shy. Although some introverts might be a bit shy, most of them are actually not shy. Shy people avoid social activities because of the fear, and introverts prefer the environments that aren’t over-stimulating. Shy people are literally afraid of people and they try to avoid any company and social gathering. Introverts are definitely not afraid of people, they simply enjoy activities they can do alone or even with several others.
2. They’re rude
Unfortunately, many people perceive introverts as standoffish and rude, simply because they’re straight-forward, honest and a bit blunt. Introverts prefer a meaningful conversation rather than a small talk, though they can have a small talk at times. If you invite an introvert to your fantastic party and they turn down your invitation, don’t think that they are rude. They don’t want to hurt your feelings, they might be tired and they really need to relax. Introverts are actually good people who always build meaningful relationships and they rarely intend to hurt someone.
3. They don’t like to talk
Most of us tend to believe that introverts hate to talk. It’s a myth.
Yes, introverts spend more time thinking and analyzing things, gathering
all the facts, and they don’t like to take decisions in a rush. As I
mentioned above, some introverts don’t like small talks, but if you talk
about something that interests them, you will not even notice that they
are introverts.
4. They hate people
One of the most popular myths about introverts is that they hate people
and avoid them at all costs. Yes, introverts usually have fewer
friendships, however, their relationships are more meaningful. Sure,
extroverts are not superficial, and even though they have more
friendships, they lack true friends. If you have an introvert friend,
you are very lucky, because introverts cherish true friendship and they
are really loyal. You can always count on your introvert friend and they
will definitely help you in any difficult situation.
5. They often suffer from depression
Both introverts and extroverts suffer from depression. Just because introverts are quiet and they spend lots of time alone doesn’t mean they are depressive. They are happy people and they enjoy this life in their own way. Before telling that your introverted coworker is depressive, think twice. You have no right to judge anyone and you have no right to offend anyone. If you tell introverts that they are strange and depressive, you can’t even imagine how you’ll offend them.
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